Holly Paymon, P.h.D | Clinical Psychologist
Holly Paymon, P.h.D
Clinical Psychologist

Therapy for Children 0-8 Years
and Families in Los Angeles

Emotion Regulation Support in Los Angeles

Helping your child understand and manage their big feelings.

At Child & Family STEPS, I understand that watching your child struggle with intense emotions can be heart-wrenching. I specialize in providing children and families with the tools they need to navigate the ups and downs of emotional development. My approach to emotion regulation support is designed to empower your child, strengthen your family bonds, and bring more peace and balance to your home.

What is Emotion Regulation?

Emotion regulation is the ability to understand and manage emotional reactions in a healthy and effective way. For children, this means learning to identify their feelings, understand what’s causing them, and respond to them in a way that is age-appropriate and doesn’t harm themselves or others. Just like learning to walk or talk, developing emotional skills is a key part of childhood development.

Why Choose Child & Family STEPS to Support your child with emotion regulation?

Dr Holly Paymon Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Dr. Holly Paymon
  • Expert Guidance: I am trained in evidence-based practices (such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Parent-Child Interaction Therapy, Attachment-Based Approaches) that are proven to be effective in helping children develop and strengthen emotional skills. My specialized training in child development allows me to adapt these interventions to be effective, developmentally appropriate, and personalized for your child’s unique needs and strengths. 
  • A Safe and Nurturing Environment: I believe that therapy should feel both safe and enjoyable. I provide a warm, welcoming, and confidential space where I use creative techniques like games, pretend play, and art to make our sessions engaging. This playful approach helps children feel comfortable and lowers pressure, making it easier for them to express themselves without judgement and build confidence.
  • A Family-Centered Approach: Parents and caregivers are a vital part of the solution. I work closely with you to provide the tools and strategies you need to support your child’s emotional growth at home.

What to Expect in Our Sessions

1. Assessment & Goal Setting: We’ll start by learning about your child’s and family’s specific challenges and strengths. Together, we’ll set clear and achievable goals for therapy. 

2. Building Emotional Awareness: Through fun and engaging activities, we’ll help your child learn to identify and label a wide range of emotions. Then, we play detective together to uncover the ‘why’ behind the feeling, connecting it to specific events, thoughts, and body sensations. This process helps your child understand their personal triggers and see their emotions not as random storms, but as understandable reactions to what’s happening in their life. 

3. Developing Coping Skills: We’ll teach your child practical skills to manage difficult emotions. This may include mindfulness exercises, relaxation techniques, and problem-solving strategies. 

4. Parent Coaching and Support: I will work with you to develop effective strategies for responding to your child’s emotional outbursts, supporting them with regulation, and promoting positive behaviors at home. 

5. Practice and Progress: We will provide opportunities for your child to practice their new skills in a supportive environment, and we’ll celebrate their progress every step of the way. 

FAQs about Emotion Regulation

What are the signs of poor emotion regulation in children?

Children who struggle with emotion regulation may exhibit a variety of behaviors, including: 

  • Frequent and intense temper tantrums
  • Difficulty calming down after getting upset
  • Aggressive behavior, such as hitting, pushing, or biting
  • Withdrawing from social situations
  • Difficulty with transitions or changes in routine
  • Anxiety or frequent worries

Who can benefit from support with emotion regulation?

My services are designed for children who are struggling with big emotions and their families who want to learn how to best support them. I work with children with a range of challenges, including those with ADHD, anxiety, and other developmental or behavioral concerns. 

What are the benefits of emotion regulation support?

Support with emotion regulation can help your child:
  • Develop a better understanding of their emotions
  • Learn to express their feelings in a healthy way
  • Reduce the frequency and intensity of emotional outbursts
  • Improve their relationships with family and friends
  • Build confidence and self-esteem
  • Develop resilience and coping skills for life’s challenges